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RITA - ON SEX
So, how do you guys do it? I cant count the number of times I have heard this question, usually from men but many women as well. My question is, ‘how the fuck you think we do it?’ any which-a-way we can. For men, imagine if you didn’t have a dick – I bet you would get VERY creative and start using your hands, mouth and body in ways you never thought of before right? When we think of sex between men and women it usually involves penetration and a few different sexual position. You do this-I do that- then I cum-then you cum. But two women making love is more about sharing ourselves and enjoying each others body in anyway that feels good. Is it anything like what we see in adult movies? NOT! I can stand watching two women do each other in those films. it does nothing for me. And it’s FAKE! it’s rarely sensual and it doesn’t resemble the way women naturally explore each others bodies – and I find it a total turnoff.
Why do women like each other to begin with? Hell I don’t know, probably a lot of the same reasons that men dig us so much…J well there’s a whole lot more to it, but I don’t feel like writing a fucking manuscript – so I’ll just let the question linger in it’s abstract form… the answer is whatever you want it to be.
Things that turn me on about a woman… hmmm – if I were to sum it up in one word, I guess it would have to be…. the BOOTY! It’s usually the first thing I notice and not much else seems to matter if it’s tight and round and ‘phat’… I sometimes wish I didn’t have this obsession with womens asses, but I cant help myself (smile). I even lust after my own…ha! Seriously though, my ass is what makes me feel sexy – not my tits or anything else. I always joke that I would commit suicide if I didn’t have an ass…. Glad I wont have to contemplate that anytime soon! Second to the rear I think I notice peoples hands and eyes. Believe it or not I am turned on by a nice pair of hands (men or women) – I try to visualize them squeezing my ass and hips. They must be strong, competent hands though…. And the next thing I notice are the eyes – not so much how they look, but how expressive they are and what they allow me to see about a person. Guys you wanna know a serious turn-on for women? INTIMACY. It’s the sense of closeness that flows from and open, meaningful exchange of thoughts, feelings and affection. For example, I never simply desire SEX. I desire intimacy and I rarely think of sex unless there is someone who makes me want it WITH that person. What makes me want it with a person? certainly not just good looks. Good looking people really are a dime a dozen. When I see an attractive man – I admire him just like I admire a fine piece of furniture – I don’t want him inside me! Or I at least wont know until I have a chance to feel he is someone I want to share my mind and soul with, only then am I able to feel that warm tingly sensation in the lower regions.
You see sex is not just something we have, or do, or have done to us. It is part of who we are and our sexual energy drives us. It fuels our passions, hopes and dreams. This energy must be utilized properly or it will be dissipated and become destructive to our health. For all the pleasure that sex can give, it can and should have a legitimate, practical and thoughtful expression in your life. It is not my intention to make sex puritanical, but guided focused and passionate – this will do more to sustain your health and vibrancy than indiscriminate, non-thoughtful haphazard engagements that can only give back to you in the same manner. Just my 2cents…… more RITA G ON LIFE next time……. Peace, me
Rita G. is one of the most popular
models in the world. Her appearances, and subsequent airings
on Howard Stern’s E! Network television show in late 2003,
were among the highest rated ever, causing them to be
repeated faster than any other Stern episodes up to that
time. Since then, she has appeared as a correspondent for
BET (Black Entertainment Television), appeared on radio with
Dr. Dre, and Hot 97 out of NYC, appeared in dozens of
magazines, including the cover of the nationally syndicated
Smooth Girl magazine. Rita has also been featured in
Playboy, and in December 2005 was named the new Sex/Advice
Columnist for Playboy's "Special Edition"
Magazine. She is featured on her website, www.rita-g.com.
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